Tuesday, August 31, 2010

A New Look and Some Winter Finds for Ilah

We all like a change of scenery, right? I felt like it was time for one around here so Mr. Wonderful gave my little bloggity blog a revamp tonight. You like? I do! Gotta love a man who knows his way around Adobe Illustrator. I'm still in the process of putting things in place but I delight in looking at the new soft hues while doing so : )

Winter is still far off {although fall is quickly approaching - hello September; you sure did come around fast!} but when I spotted this cute rain coat I had to get it for Ilah {a Marshalls find at $14.99 - reg price $46.00 - size 12 mo}.




And then of course Ilah needs to keep her cute little feet warm during the brisk winter months so I snagged these up when I saw them {TJ Maxx find at $5.99}....



Who else besides me is looking forward to this sweltering heat coming to an end?

Monday, August 30, 2010

Weekend Highlights!

Saturday morning we got up and headed out to get Ilah's "big girl" carseat! Yes, that time has come already. At just 7 months young, Ilah weighs 22 pounds so it was time to make the switch and make those cute chubby legs more comfortable : ) After a lot of research, we got one of the new Britax convertible carseats that just hit the market - the Boulevard 70 CS {rear facing up to 40 pounds/forward facing up to 70}. It's a carseat that has many safety features and one that Ilah can grow into for years to come. Pricey, but worth it!


While in Babies-R-Us, I spotted these cute sandals on clearance for $2. Aren't they cute?!...

Among some other things we picked up, I decided to try out the Baby Safe Feeder to see if Ilah would like it. I was eating some watermelon the other day and gave Ilah a lick because she was starring me down with that "please share with me, mommy" look. Well, she LOVED the watermelon but I couldn't just hand a chunk over to her {hello potential choking hazard!}, so things got a little messy. These little mesh bags became the perfect solution!

Ilah loved having her fruit handed over to her {she went to town on a piece of an apple}...

After our trip to Babies-R-Us, we took Ilah to my mom's house so they could spend a few hours together {and yes, Ilah spent some time with Dora too!} while mommy and daddy had an afternoon date. Don't worry, we don't leave Ilah standing in front of the tv like that!

We had lunch at The Cheesecake Factory! Yummmm!! And out of all the yummy things I could have ordered, I went with a Chinese Chicken Salad. I'm keeping my end goal in mind!

After lunch we went and saw Eat, Pray, Love. Have you seen it? If so, what did you think of it? I won't share my opinion just yet incase any of you haven't seen it yet.


Sunday was spent tending to our "to-do" lists. No fun. But things have to get done, right? Once again I pulled out clothes that Ilah is too big to wear and packed them away. While although there are a lot of empty hangers in the closet now, it's not only because her smaller clothes are now put away, but it's also a reminder that I need to do her laundry {which will only expand her clothes and this closet all the more}.


I started with washing and drying her sheets. The load of clothes will follow today.


In the afternoon I went to Aldi and saw these cheese straws {blends of cheddar, parmesean and blue cheese}. That sounded so yummy so I picked them up to try. I thought it would be a nice little extra goodness along side my salads.


After I got home, I made some smoothies for us....


And then I chatted up with a friend for a bit through facebook. Oh how I love the convenience of having internet on my phone!....


Then it was onto menu planning and coupon cutting....


While daddy was outside washing mommy's car, I gave our sweet girl a bath. Afterwards I was playing around with her with her onsie and snapped this picture of her with it on her head!....


I ordered a book a few weeks ago called "Friendship for Grown Up's". I'm half way through. Slowly but surely I'm making my way through it.

After Ilah went down for the night {7:45 p.m. last night}, the hubby went out to get us Chipotle for dinner. Don't you just love their chips and guacamole?!?!


I watched parts of the 62nd Annual Emmy's while grubbin' down.

And now, just like that, Monday is here.



I hope you all had a wonderful weekend!

Friday, August 27, 2010

Candice Olson's Divine Designs

Candice Olson is my favorite interior designer. Her taste is impeccable. I am always wowed by how she can take a space from drab to fab in what seems like a snap of a finger. I love to tune into HGTV's Divine Design to see her creations {yes, people pay to have her come in and do the makeovers; just found that out when reading this article}. Everything from her choices in furniture, to the color palette that she chooses, to the accent pieces that she puts in place....she has quite the eye!

I forget what morning show I was watching a few weeks ago in which Candice Olson was on to give her advice on making spaces warm, functional and stylish. They showed a few spaces that Candice had made over and once again, I was in awe. One that particularly stood out was a dated, overly-large bedroom that was stuck in the 80's before Candice imparted her talent into it.

Here is the Bedroom Before:

Here is the Bedroom After:
Isn't this an amazing transformation!? Don't feel that if you walked into this room that you would just float?! It's gorgeous!! With such a massive space to work with, I could see how the homeowner struggled with how to make it warm and cozy. I'm sure she doesn't ever want to leave her bedroom now!



Here are some more GORGEOUS before and after's....


Kitchen Before:

Kitchen After:


Living Room Before:

Living Room After:

Basement Before:
Basement After:


Bedroom Before:

Bedroom After:

Family Room Before:

Family Room After:

Basement Before:
Basement After:
Without a doubt, this is the most luxurious basement I have ever seen! Do you see that stationary bike? If I had a space like this with one of those in it, I wouldn't mind working out! How about you?

To see more interior designs by Candice Olson, visit her page here on HGTV.

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Fun on a Wednesday Night

Last night after we put the baby down to bed, Dele and I had a nice little date night in! At least that's what it felt like to me. No tv. No internet browsing on the blackberry {I'm guilty of that}. No late hours of work on the computer {he's guilty of that}. And no tending to things left undone around the house. We simply made time for just us. With the house quiet and still, we talked, we laughed, we connected. And then we had fun playing Scrabble!

Dele had been talking about Scrabble for some time. I had never played before. My mom had this deluxe version sitting in her house and I noticed yesterday that it had never been used. She told me to take it, along with another unopened game that she had {Yahtzee}.

Before the game I made some hot chocolate, and adorned a small plate with a few madeline's! The saying on the cup is exactly how I felt last night....

Since I had never played Scrabble before, I wasn't sure if I would like it. I love verbal games like Taboo! Ha! But I had so much fun playing Scrabble!! I'm glad that this game is now a part of our game collection!


So who won???

Dele's score came to.....


And my score came to....

Mama wins! Boo-ya!! Not bad for a first timer, eh?!

If I was smart, I would have made some sort of bet before playing, like whoever wins has to do dishes for the next 3 days. Yes, I already do dishes but in this case, I would have had 3 days off! Ha!

More games of Scrabble to come {we loved it!}...and this time with bets attached to them!!

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

I've Become a Coupon Mom

Since I am a stay-at-home mom and we live off of one income, I'm always thinking of ways to make our dollar stretch to our benefit. I always considered coupon clipping to be a grueling, time consuming task and yet one more thing to add to my "things to do" list. Quite frankly, I wasn't feeling it. I tried it before and I couldn't remain consistent. But then I started to view coupon clipping as a responsibility - a good responsibility. One that I needed to do. So about 3 months ago, I gave it a go again - with a whole new mindset. And after seeing our monthly savings, I will be a coupon clipper for life.

Let me say that I like to save money, but I am NOT a nickle and dimer. I might literally go insane if I hunted and scoured every paper known to man, and spent endless hours online to find coupons. The process of printing, clipping, matching and stacking {lions and tigers and bears, oh my!} coupons can be a tedious one, especially if you want to get items for free. If I pull out some coupons that equate to a free item, great. But I don't play the "strategic coupon game". It's a lot of work; I'll leave that to the pro's.

I'd say that I'm more than a minimalist {I certaintly have a watchful eye for a good deal/ie: a sale item combined with a store coupon + a manufaturer coupon can sometimes equal paying cents for a brand name product, if not actually getting it for free}, but I am certaintly not the Queen of coupons. Just the savvy cost saving Matron of our home! : )

I won't ever get down to the astonishing low numbers I see other people spending {a bill coming down to $18, when it was originally over $200}...and I'm totally ok with that. To me, a little savings is better than none. Middle of the road is where you'll find me.

When I first started coupon clipping a few months back, my savings seemed just like cents - but I watched them turn into dollars...which now {because practice makes perfect} turns into hundreds of dollars in savings per month....which turns into thousands per year. Which is why I do it and will continue to do it. Surprisingly I have found coupon clipping to be fun and it has turned into being rewarding as well. I look forward to going through the Sunday paper and clipping out the coupons for things that our family needs and uses and I know we will save money on.

I've developed the habit of meal planning, which means that I no longer just go grocery shopping and fill the cart with "stuff". First I see what items I already have in the freezer/refrigerator and in my cupboards. I can usually make a few meals from what I have on hand and then I meal plan for the next few weeks, writing out my grocery list based on what things are needed in order to make those dishes. Do we ever detour from our list? Hardly. But yes, sometimes. Because treats make a heart happy : )

When I go through my Sunday paper, I weed through all the pages of coupons and only keep the ones that I know I will use. Using The Coupon Mom's method, I pull out the Smart Source and Red Plum coupon books {occasionally there will be a Proctor & Gamble coupon booklet too; love those!}. I date the coupon booklets and set them aside and go to her site weekly to check in on her grocery deal findings and match them up to the coupons in the booklets.

Before I ever buy anything now, I look for sale items, Buy 1/Get 1 Free items, and am mindful of using a manufacturer’s coupon in addition to a store coupon to get an even lower price. The grocery store that I shop at {Kroger} also double coupons that are .50 cents or less so I keep that in mind while I'm shopping there. I also take a few minutes to visit the stores website before going there to not only see what items are currently on sale but also so I can prepare my coupons in advance, and because the store has separate coupons that I can load directly to my Kroger card and not have to print!}. You can go here to see what stores double coupons in your state.

For items like hygiene and beauty, and household cleaning supplies, I go to my local Wallgreens, CVS or RiteAid store. All three stores are all about a mile from my house. There is always an insert in my Sunday paper from these stores advertising their deals of the week - and each store has their own coupons. I obviously only clip the ones that I need, and when I combine a manufacturer's coupon with their sale item, or match it with one of their coupons, the deal gets even sweeter : )


When I go through my Sunday paper and clip out coupons, my pile initially looks like this.....

Then I stack the coupons into piles {canned goods, frozen food, baking goods, beauty/hygiene, etc.}....

And then I put them in my coupon organzier. The green one is mine...and I got the small cute one for my mom : ) I just started to help her out with the coupon saving/coupon cutting process.


Just $1 at Michaels!....


I wanted a coupon file folder that I could fit in my purse. The one I currently use has 12 tabs so my labels look like this....


My categories are:
  • Household Items
  • Snacks
  • Frozen Foods
  • Dairy/Refrigerated
  • Condiments
  • Baking Products
  • Pasta/Rice/Bread
  • Dry Food
  • Canned Goods
  • Hygiene/Beauty
  • Health
  • Baby
  • And in the front section of the binder I put coupons for restaurants, department stores, cleaners, car rental, etc. Basically, "Miscellaneous" things.

Now, let me share my love for Aldi!

I used to be brand loyal. Nothing but the brand names would do. But then along came Aldi. Products are much less than grocery store prices {even when taking coupons into consideration} - and we have found that their brands taste SO GOOD - superior to even the brand names. Aldi does have some name brands in their store that you are familiar with {Dole, Uncle Bens, etc.} but after trying their own label, you will soon start to just [intentionally] skip right over them. At first I wasn't sure how I would take to this store {because I was so familiar with shopping at a large grocery store chain} but I really love going there. If you've been to small market stores in Europe, this is exactly what the shopping expierence at Aldi feels like. Eve if I never cut coupons, our family is still saving a good amount of money by me shopping at Aldi.

Their shopping process is unique. For starters, you pay a quarter for a shopping cart {you get that quarter back if you return the cart}, and you bring your own bags to bag your own groceries...

We went to Aldi this past weekend and filled up 3 bags of food for $73. This is just one of the bags {I love this black canvas shopping bag! So large, so convienent to take to aldi! You can get one at Bed, Bath, & Beyond}....

I don't want to rant about how much I love Aldi {well, actually I do but this post is already pretty long!}. If you want to know all about Aldi, go here {and then scroll to the middle to get past all the boring stuff! Ha!}

We also have a membership to Costco....

I buy certain items in bulk....chicken, steak, toilet paper, paper towels, plastic cups, and some other things.

I don't try to follow every money saving site on the net. And I suggest that you don't either. You will get very overwhelmed feeling that there is so much to keep up with and it will only make things more complicated than they need to be. I have a core group of sites that I check in on and use for my source of coupons, aside from the newspaper:

Coupons.com

Red Plum

Smart Source

Coupon Mom

Mommy Saves Big/Printable Coupons

Sunday Coupon Preview: If you join the mailing list, they let you know early what coupon inserts will be in that Sunday's paper so you can determine if you should buy additional Sunday paper for the extra savings.

8Coupons.com: For local savings on things in my area {restaurants, entertainment, beauty & spa, dry-cleaning specials, etc.}

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Want even more? Parenting.com lists several other money saving sites that you should check out! Go here to see the list!

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I'm not a seasoned couponer but these lovelies are. Check out their sites for great tips!....

Coupon Mom

Jenny at Southern Savers

Shelly at Coupon Teacher

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Lastly, coupon cutting can sometimes cost you so be careful as you go! Here's a good article how to not get sucked in by all the savings that seems to be thrown at you online and in mailers!

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There are other ways to save money aside from coupon clipping. Here's what I've done over the past few months:

  • Called up the Gas Company and got our price per therm lowered. Now our gas bill is half of what it used to be!
  • Called our Insurance company about lowering our car insurance premium with no changes to our existing policy. Now we're saving $50 per month! All because I just picked up the phone and inquired.
  • Switched from Directv to ATT U-Verse...More for less! {and got a $250 visa card for making the switch!}
  • We have just 1 credit card now, with a 0% interest rate for 18 months, by which time all debt will be paid off. The only thing we will then owe on will be our house.
  • Our bank is now offering a DELTA debit card that gives you 1 mile for every $1 spent. I see free flights in our future!